I've always been the one who wants to teach them how to manage their money. Whether it's ten or twenty or fifty dollars I believe the principle is the same. They come with lists of who they want to buy for and ideas of the kind of gifts they want to give. It's my job to affirm their generous hearts and then steer them toward other (less expensive) ideas.
What I've observed through the years is God's activity in their hearts. They'll feel disappointed that they can't get something but then they'll find something else and the excitement is back in full swing. I've seen God provide them with pretty cool gifts at very low prices. I often point that out to them and tell them it's a "God doing."
A "God doing" is what my Mom says when only God could have done it. There are no coincidences, no luck or anything like that when we are believers in Jesus. God does it all.
Tonight was our shopping night and I got to see all the little God doings.
Another miracle is the money God provides for the shopping. I don't have a lot of extra funds but after I pay all of my bills there seems to be just enough left over to take them out. I am truly blessed beyond what I deserve.
Christmas traditions are important to keep especially when there is a touch of loss and sadness. This tradition helps me get out for a little bit and no focus on Aaron's absence. This is the fourth year his name has been removed from our lists.
We will always remember him and we will always have some pain in our hearts.
