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My blog shares my recovery journey from childhood abuse to living with mental illness. I've been involved in twelve step groups and therapy since 1982. I accepted Jesus as my Savior in 1988. To the best of my ability, I have followed where He wants me to go and what He wants me to do. Maybe you'll find the hope and strength you need through what I write. Maybe you want to stop hurting yourself. Maybe you have a friend who needs help and can benefit from my story. I was newly disabled when I asked God this question: "What do you want me to do with my life?" I closed my eyes and paused for a few moments to still my mind. This is what I sensed from Him: "Amy, I want you to write your story to bring hope and healing to those who are still suffering." And that's exactly what I am doing!

Monday, February 10, 2014

Abbott and Costello- Who's On First



This classic comedy sketch is one of my favorites.  Bud Abbott and Lou Costello pull off a synchronized banter that can be used in many fields, not just baseball.

Probably the most obvious point is their communication.  Even though each of them thinks they are asking the right questions and giving the right answers they are still looking at the conversation through their own unique rose colored glasses.

Imagine what the sketch would sound like if Bud Abbott were to say, "These guys names are who, what, why, etc..  Maybe it would be better if I drew it out for you."

Imagine if Lou Costello were to ask, "Bud, I know you know your players names but I'm missing something here.  Do you have a lineup sheet I can look at?"

Fortunately, they didn't ask those questions and we get to enjoy one of the greatest comedy teams of all time do what they do best.

The other thing I noticed was Lou getting more and more upset because he thought Bud wasn't giving him the right answers or he was just playing with him.  Lou could have taken a time out to settle himself down, remove himself from the heated discussion and give his blood pressure a chance to go down.

The last thing is these two guys did not get violent with each other.  They did not call each other names, use the bat in a way it's not intended for or use their bodies for intimidation.

Like I said, I love these guys.

I hope you enjoyed them.

I learned about better communication this time around.